What can you do to keep a loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s with you in the present?
Become part of their past.
Step into their world, 40, 50, 60 years back in order to participate in their lives. Studies have shown that preparing their favorite meals and participating in the presentation of these meals is a great way to encourage your loved one to eat while keeping a memory alive. Also try music therapy, playing songs from their generation, to engage their memory. The sense of hearing persists through different stages of Alzheimer’s disease, memories of tunes from their times endure the disease. Lastly, Michael Cheang, an assistant professor of family and consumer services at the University of Hawaii, reminds loved ones that touch is another sense which is particularly valuable when verbal and visual communication lose their effectiveness. As Cheang states, “It’s a basic human element. We all love to be touched, hugged, to feel secure.” So eat, pray and love, cooking their favorite meals, singing their favorite songs and showing love through contact.